Kinky Ways to Thank Your Partner on Thanksgiving!
In this fast-paced life, it’s incredibly easy to neglect your partner(s) so it’s a good thing we have November! With upcoming Thanksgiving, our thoughts turn to thankfulness and gratitude and there are plenty of seriously naughty ways to show your appreciation all month long and on Thanksgiving too!
4 Kinky Ways to Thank Your Partner All Month Long
- Sensual Massage – Sensual massage is a great way to get your bodies warmed up and ready for some fun, but more than that, it’s a great way to bond with your partner. Touch and body contact during the sensual massage with a little warming lubricant can be a loving, intimate experience and lead into kinkier waters; it’s totally up to you. Get erotic massage tips here.
- Surprise Dress Up – Dressing up as a character or in some lace or leather lingerie is a great way to surprise your partner with a little impromptu fun! Nothing better than coming home from a difficult day at work to your partner laced up and ready to go, am I right?
- Try Backdoor Fun – You know, anal. It might seem like forbidden straits to you, but give it a go! If your partner is interested in this sort of pleasure experience, you owe it to each other to try it out as it can be a very fulfilling sexual experience for many. You never know; you may really enjoy it! My advice is to take things slow. Need help convincing your partner? Here are a few tip on how to get your partner to try anal.
- Treat Them to A Sexual Getaway – Get away from the cold for the fall and winter months by surprising your partner(s) with a sexual getaway! This can include a romantic getaway in the destination of your choice, an erotic stay-cation at home, or a specific vacation to one of the many clothing-optional getaway destinations in the Dominican Republic and other select locations around the world. Many popular adult sex resorts include Caliente, Viking, and Charli’s Angels.
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Is the “Squirting” Phenomenon Real?
Is the “Squirting” Phenomenon Real?
Squirting is something you may have heard of before, but you might not know the finer details about what is actually happening during this sexual phenomenon. “Squirting” is caused by putting on a female’s prostate or “g-spot” and if enough pressure is applied to this area, it can cause the woman to urinate. Not technically an orgasm, the actually squirting may include a mixture of urine and cum because said person is already (presumably) engaged in sexual activities. That said, the urine is what is being released during squirting and what is ejaculated out of a woman. The liquid ejaculated during squirting is mainly clear. Most women who have experienced the squirting phenomenon claim to experience more intensely satisfying climaxes during squirting than a typical orgasm.
How You Can Get Your Partner to Squirt:
You will want to stimulate your partner with your fingers in order to feel around for her g-spot. It is usually located toward the front wall of the vagina, but each woman is different. You will know you’ve located it because your partner will respond to the sensitive area and also because the area may feel raise, swollen or rough in texture which helps it stand out against other areas. Your partner may feel as though they have to urinate when this area is stimulated, but as long as she has previously urinated, this is perfectly fine. She may also feel some pressure so it’s important to encourage your partner to relax in order to continue stimulating this area to the point of squirting. Your partner can encourage the likelihood of squirting by pushing with her pelvic floor muscles, but keep in mind that there may be a lot of liquid ejaculated once she begins squirting so preparation is ideal. You’ll want to put towels down if you’re worried about a mess. Don’t be discouraged if no squirting happens because not everyone squirts when this area is stimulated, but also be patient in exploring whether or not this kind of stimulation is for you. And remember to be gentle, take your time, and enjoy!
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Things You Didn’t Know Would Boost Your Immunity Naturally!
The fall is probably one of the times of year when they may feel less likely to bump uglies, but you may want to rethink your laziness and low sex drive. Whether it’s the comfort foods, too much sweets, or diet soda cramping your libido’s style, we’ve come up with a few surefire ways to boost your libido naturally that you may not have thought to try!
Things You Didn’t Know Would Boost Your Libido Naturally!
- TV In Your Bedroom – A surprising study on the effect of sex among couples who had a TV in their bedroom yielded even more surprising results. Couples with the TV in their room were more likely to engage in sexual activities because they would either watch more porn together or get bored with their usual shows and have sex instead; who knew?
- Adrenaline Rush – Activities that trigger your adrenaline may help increase your sex drive because of the effect they have on circulation and blood flow. Some fun activities to try out this fall with your partner include zip-lining, surfing, skiing, sky diving, and other activities.
- Hot Chocolate – There may be something to your chocolate addiction during fall! Hot chocolate, especially dark chocolate, helps naturally boost your libido, releases endorphins to trigger your pleasure response, and it’s filled with antioxidants. It’s also equally delicious!
- Sunlight – The vitamin D you gain from sunlight is a natural mood booster. It can help fight depression that may be more likely during the winter and can even help boost your libido so take a stroll with that special someone 😉
- Other natural libido boosters: apple cider with cinnamon, ginseng tea, dark chocolate, avocados, cardiovascular exercise, yoga, and kegel exercises.
- Things to Avoid: Alcohol (especially hard liquor), tonic and soda water (it lowers testosterone), diet soda, and artificial sweeteners.
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What Leads to Sex In A Graveyard?
Sex in a graveyard may seem like a bizarre concept, but it happens and there are a few reasons why. Thrill seekers around this time of year may be considering a quick romp among the tombstones so here are some little known facts to what might lead to sex in a spooky atmosphere this Halloween.
What Leads to Sex In A Graveyard?
Sex in public places might not be your bag, but if it is, that’s cool with us. Just make sure you’re safe and don’t get caught because it’s totally illegal! If you were curious about how people end up having sex in a graveyard, here are a few reasons why it happens time and again.
- Thrill Seekers – Some people are natural-born thrill seekers and enjoy sex in public places. A graveyard is just one of the many places you could enjoy some exciting sex for the fall season.
- It’s Quiet and Romantic – You know what they say, cemeteries are dead silent! Some people find a kind of peace, comfort, and even a sense of romance among the dead which is why they end up in romantic or otherwise lustful entanglements among the tombstones.
- Taboo and Dangerous – It’s obviously a taboo things to have sex in a graveyard, but some people get excited at the thought of getting caught, creating “life” where lives end, and the idea that graveyards are public places where people might see them.
- The Spirits Watch Over You – Other people might enjoy the fact that they imagine the dead watching them get down and dirty on the cemetery lawn under a full moon.
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Kinky Halloween Games to Play!
Halloween is coming and there are some naughty Halloween games you can enjoy with your partner this Hallow’s Eve that we’ve come up with. These are so much fun, really easy to customize to your sexual tastes, and require little to no prep time!
Kinky Halloween Games to Play!
- Naughty Blind Man’s Bluff – Blindfold your partner and have your way with them! Use dildos,butt plugs, feathers, whips, and various lubricants and creams to invoke pleasure (or titillating pain, if you’re up for it!).
- 7 Minutes In Heaven – This is a game for groups and I’m sure you’ve heard of it from your teen years, but our version is a whole lot naughtier! All you need is a bottle and a lot of imagination. A group sits in a circle around a bottle. You spin the bottle and then select 2 people from the group (depending on where the open end lands) who go into the nearest closet. They then get 7 minutes to do whatever their heart’s desire! Whether that’s a quick kiss or something more devious is up to you and your group!
- Sexy Scavenger Hunt – Take turns hiding away your favorite sex toys, lubricants, bondage gear, chocolate (or chocolate covered strawberries), ice, whips, etc. around the house. Then, go on a hunt to look for them together and enjoy 😉
- The “Abstinence” Game – Taunt one another aggressively with sexual gestures to see who gives in to the urge first! Whoever lasts out the longest wins – or do they? 😉
- Naughty Game of Trick or Treat – Who says trick or treating is just for kids? This gives Halloween fun a naughty new way to play! The full instructions can be found here.
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What Is A Latex Fetish?
If you’ve never heard the term rubberists, then don’t worry; we’re about to broaden your horizons with a kind of bondage you might want to try! Those in the latex community, commonly referred to as rubberists, encompass anyone who enjoys a latex lifestyle. Those who enjoy wearing latex clothing, indulging in pleasure that involves latex in their sexual experiences, and have latex sex parties on the regular may consider themselves latex lovers at heart and many consider it a complete lifestyle.
What Is A Latex Fetish?
A latex fetish entails a person who is either attracted to those who wear latex clothing or one who enjoys wearing the latex clothing themselves and derives pleasure from doing so. The fetish gained popularity during the 60’s and 70’s, but has been around since the 1800’s and originated in Scotland. It’s rumored to have begun with raincoats and evolved from there. Latex fetishism is considered an all-encompassing lifestyle for many “rubberists” (or “rubbermen” for gay men). Latex fetishists always enjoy pleasure and sex related acts with latex involved. While it may seem strange to a non-latex lover, rubberists gain much pleasure from their latex-wearing lifestyles. In fact, many claim that latex makes them feel naked in their “second skin” latex outfits which is a turn-on. Others enjoy the tightness of the latex and practice a form of bondage, domination, and submission through the use of latex clothing and devices as they enjoy feeling confined and bound with latex. Enjoyment is also gained from any kind of rubber material, especially PVC sex toys. Some also find the scent of latex to be an erotic turn-on as well. Latex clothing is a great way to feel empowered or submissive, depending on the situation, and be a great way to let someone know you’re up for playing a little rough!
Where Are Latex Lifestyles Most Popular?
Latex lifestyles, including parades and local parties and festivals, are most popular in larger urban cities such as New York, Berlin, Montreal, and San Francisco. In some areas of these cities, you may even see rubberists out and about in their latex attire as it is considered a part of their life.
Popular Latex Accessories:
The most popular latex accessories include specially made latex clothing and quality is very important! The latex clothing should be sewn together, not glued, in order to be longer lasting and not fall apart during use. Aside from latex clothing worn directly on your body, other popular latex accessories and items include cloaks, gas masks, splash suits, sleep sacks (full body suits), vacuum beds, Mackintoshes (full-length water proof coats), and galoshes (rubber rain boots).
Latex Safety and Sex Tips:
- First up, make sure you are NOT allergic to latex!
- Buy some nice latex clothing, a few latex accessories, and PVC toys.
- Take your latex play slow and steady – Take your time and explore what you like before jumping into full on latex sex parties.
- Have Fun!
If you’re considering trying out some latex loving, there are a few tips we can share with you to help encourage and enjoy the experience more fully! Firstly, establish whether or not you will simply include latex in your sexual experience or if you plan on including BDSM practices. If you plan on incorporating bondage into your fun, you will want to follow the same BDSM safety guidelines (use of safe words, discussing list of acceptable practices, etc.) as any other kind of bondage play. On top of that, be aware of safety concerns when it comes to latex as hydration is so important with this kind of material since it can increase body heat and perspiration. On top of that, remember not to constrict yourself too tightly for extended periods of time as this can restrict your breathing. If you plan on using a vacuum bed, make sure you have a partner as they can be extremely dangerous when operated alone. Remember, also, that latex is easily affected by heat so avoid being near hot areas, heaters, etc. as the material can warp and melt. Be sure to use lubricant or talcum powder before attempting to put on your latex outfits as this will make it much easier to slip into. Keeping your latex clothing clean and in good condition by using a latex cleaner and spray and keeping away from oil, metal and heat. Be aware that when you are wearing the clothing or using accessories, your movement may be restricted so exercise caution and safety during use. You can also gain other insights and support from the International Association of Rubberists and Fetlife. And remember – have fun 😉
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Your Guide to Erotic Vampire Roleplay
With fall finally here and Halloween coming very soon, your mind might be on the seedier, wilder side of things to keep things sexy in the bedroom. Since we’re all about amping up the kink in your sex life, we’ve been doing research on ways to enjoy some wild naughty fun this fall and we thought, what’s sexier than vampires?
The answer is nothing. Vampires have taken over pop culture in a big way ever since the inception of Twilight, Vampire Diaries and True Blood and it’s no wonder. Even though you might be tuning in to your favorite erotic fantasy shows and films, you may not have thought about how you can enjoy a little vampire roleplay yourself which brings us to our first kink guide with a naughty Halloween twist!
Your Guide to Erotic Vampire Roleplay
- Set the Stage. If you’re really trying to enjoy some vampire roleplay, you’ll want to set the stage and mood by using silk or velvet sheets and blankets, deep dark colors, lighting candles, and playing seductive music. This will help everyone get into the flow of things and feels more sexy, romantic, and a lot less awkward than trying to make it happen in your normal everyday environment. Half the appeal of vampire role play is the boldness, the darkness, and the seductive feel of that world so play that up.
- Pick A Character. This can be as complicated or simple as you like. You can simply choose who gets to be the vampire and who gets to be the human victim and switch off or you can create specific characters with names. You can also give your characters roles such as dominant and submissive to give the role playing some direction. You can even do something such as vampire and werewolf roles to give it more of a visceral and primal feel of lust. Try some animal dildosfor realism 😉 You can also switch roles to keep things fun, but it’s entirely up to you.
- Try Bondage. You can try playing games of lust and control such as with masturbation. One person masturbates while the other tells them when they can begin and stop as they like which can increase the intensity of pleasure. You can use bondage gear such as restraints, collars, and vibrators or use dildos, anal toys, or fetish toys to up the ante as well.
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How to Maintain Sexual Health this Fall
This post is a bit different than our normal wild selves, but I think it’s very important to keep your health in mind when the seasons change. Namely when the weather turns cold, it’s important to keep your immunity boosted, eat well, stay active, and enjoy a balanced sense of well being. All of these things can help improve your sexual health and actually improve your sex life, sexual stamina, and more if followed so read on for tips!
How to Maintain Sexual Health this Fall
- Try Tantra. Tantra is the art of meditation during sex. It’s aim is to help you reach higher states of pleasure and ecstasy. Although tantra does not always focus on sex, there is a big emphasis on intimacy. If you think tantra is a bit strange, you can start improving sexual health and well being with these yoga poses to increase your libido instead or just get fit with your partner. Working out with your partner helps increase the feeling of closeness and bonding with them and also helps amp up your sex drive for after workout fun 😉
- Eat Well. Even though it’s tempting to indulge in all the comfort foods, desserts, and lay around all bundled up this fall, make sure you get your fill of healthy foods. Some foods can help boost your libido more than others so be sure to check out our list of fall foods that help increase your libido naturally.
- Try New Things. This last one is less obvious than the others, but just as important. If you feel your sex life has gone by the wayside or now feels dull and boring, try mixing things up! Give these naughty fall ideas a go, try new sex toys, new sex positions, or simply talk about what you both like in bed. Communication is the first step to a better sex life and then, before you know it, you’ll be enjoying all your fantasies in real time.
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Why Straight Guys Should Try Anal Toys
In this day and age, I hope you know it’s perfectly normal for straight men to indulge in and enjoy a little anal stimulation. If you don’t already know, I’m here to tell you: enjoying anal stimulation via toys or other methods does NOT make you gay! If you are gay, that’s okay, too, but we’re talking about straight men here today so let’s stay on topic 😉 Straight guys can enjoy anal play just as much as anyone else and there are many reasons why you should consider trying it out if you haven’t already. We took the liberty of drawing up a handy list for you 😛
Why Straight Guys Should Try Anal Toys!
First up, I want to quickly mention that you’ll want to discuss the idea of anal play with your partner beforehand, but be honest with yourself; is she someone who would be into the idea? If not, you may want to explore this avenue on your own before figuring out how to bring it up. If you think she might be open to the idea of anal fun, then go for it! It could open up a whole new area of exploration for you and your partner that really adds new excitement to your sex life. Also, having the support of your partner will help you to feel more comfortable and excited, even, about what’s in store!
- It Can Broaden Your Sex Life. If you’ve been very straight-laced until now, trying anal play and anal toys out is a great opportunity to break out of your shell! Try new things with your partner, grow together in your sexual fulfillment and get to know yourself better. Anal play between you and your partner can also be a little secret between the two of you which might make things that much more intense and erotic.
- Anal Play Opens Up A Whole New Avenue of Sexual Exploration. If you’ve only previously explored more vanilla areas of sexual enjoyment, then anal play can really open up the doors of an exciting new world for you! Anal play will help both of you explore new erogenous zones and feel more fulfilled, excited, and passionate in bed.
- Anal Stimulation Can Help You Experience the Best & Most Intense Orgasm Of Your Life. It’s well known that prostate stimulation, the area stimulated during anal play, is one of the most sensitive pleasure spots on the body. There are a bundle of nerves that exist in this area and stimulating it can result in more intense orgasms for both parties.
How to Try Anal Play for the First Time:
- The first thing you want to do is get yourself cleaned up! This means cleaning the anal area, inside and out, doing a bowel movement beforehand, showering, and even doing an enema if you feel it’s needed. You can shave the area if you feel more comfortable, but it’s up to you.
- Once you’re ready to enjoy a little anal play, you’ll want to lay towels down on your bed or wherever the fun will be had! Towels are great to have on hand just in case there’s any mess with lubricant, etc.
- After everything is set up, the main thing you want to do is RELAX. Make sure your muscles are completely relaxed as much as possible. You may feel nervous your first time, but just remember it’s all in good fun and pleasure. Relaxing your muscles will help ensure that there is as little resistance and pressure as possible which will increase the pleasurable feeling during anal play.
- Remember to decide, beforehand, which toys you want to try, if any, or how you want to explore stimulation. You can try small anal toys, have your partner use their fingers or mouth (rim job), or use a strap-on for a little pegging fun. If you’re trying anal toys for the first time, make sure the toy has a sturdy handle or larger base so it doesn’t get stuck; awkward ER visits are easily avoided with a little care and precaution.
- Before you dive into trying out your toys, be sure you have some lubricant on hand. If you plan to use toys, make sure you’re using a water based lubricant so that your toy doesn’t degrade. If you’re simply using your hands, you can safely use silicone lubricants as desired.
- Have fun and enjoy the ride 😉
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Disclaimer: We, here at Masturgasm, are not doctors (though we love dressing up as naughty ones ;-)). We do not claim to be healthcare professionals; we only offer the best advice and what has worked best for us. If you are unsure whether any of these tips are right for you, please seek care with a medical doctor or primary healthcare physician.
10 Fall Sex Tips to Have Amazing Sex this Season!
Fall is on it’s way and you deserve to enjoy this season to it’s absolute fullest so we came up with 10 tips for you to do just that – naughty style 😉
10 Fall Sex Tips for the Best Sex Ever!
- Make sure you wear your socks during naughty fun!
- Sensual kisses on the neck let your partner know it’s time for a quickie.
- Make your bedroom a comfortable sanctuary; You’ll sleep better AND have better sex.
- Plan a kinky Halloween party 😉
- Try these sex toys to add some excitement to the bedroom!
- Consider having a naughty sexual affair.
- Make your fall date nights just a little bit more fun 😉
- Try some bondage on for size: Play Doctor, Fishnet for the Win, Rope Bondage, Erotic Biting, Pegging or Pet Play.
- Indulge in some adventure and try a new sex position.
- Play a naughty game of trick or treat!
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