How to Enjoy Bondage Play
With the change of the seasons, it’s a great time to try new things in the area of intimacy and a great place to start might be one that frequently newbies find intimidating: BONDAGE.
Bondage can seem like a really scary thing, especially if you’re new to the game, but it really isn’t. It’s one of those kinds of erotic play which you can take as slow or as far as you’d like, really, and I can give you a few tips to help ease you into things without freaking anyone out (including yourself).
How to Enjoy Bondage Play (if you’re a newbie):
- Establish Boundaries. The most important part of bondage, in my opinion, is to establish your rules and boundaries. If there is something you definitely do NOT want to do, say so and put it on paper so you both know what’s off limits. If there are things you DO want to try, also put that on paper. Establishing what you’re both willing and unwilling to try will help you and your partner to both explore the things you’d like to try and safely avoid the things that you definitely do not want to do. That way, there’s no awkwardness and nobody’s feelings get hurt or kill the mood in the heat of things.
- Take Things Slow. Of course, when you first start out, you’ll want to take things slow. Feel each other out and you’ll slowly adjust to the way you and your partner can optimally enjoy each other. It doesn’t have to be all aggressive, all the time, though that is a large part of bondage. You can create a slow burn, at first, and work your way up!
- Try New Things. At the end of the day, increasing your bond and intimacy is all about trying new things. Whether that means adding in new sex toys, trying different levels of bondage, or maybe just experimenting with dirty talk and roleplay. It’s really up to you. Your rules will establish how you can go about this and you can go from there. Sky is the limit!
Remember to enjoy yourself, whatever you do, and build up a strong connection of trust, respect, and mutual pleasure.
If you’re really new to the world of bondage, check out some of our past posts: Improve Your Sex Life by Taking Charge and Tied Down: Bondage 101
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