Rope Bondage Basics
Your BDSM Guide:
Rope Bondage Basics
This week’s kink guide is focusing on all the basics of rope bondage. What is rope bondage, you ask?
Rope bondage, in a nutshell, is the act of enjoying power play (dominant and submissive role play) with the use of ropes. There are many different kinds of ropes and knots one can employ during bondage rope roleplay and each person is particular to what he/she may like.
The Ropes:
Jute, hemp, cotton, silk, and linen are all natural materials which you can purchase to use in rope bondage. Other types are nylon, polypropylene and parachute cord which are all synthetic rope options. Natural fibers are usually better options for beginners as they tend to be softer and more malleable against the skin. That said, they’re also much less stretchy than synthetic ropes which allow submissives more room to wiggle around. The wiggle room helps prevent circulation so just keep that in mind if you plan on using natural fibers as they don’t allow as much wiggle room despite being softer. One other thing to be aware of are rope burns which can easily occur with any rope material. Materials you want to avoid due to the danger of cutting off circulation and doing nerve damage to yourself and/or your partner include cable ties, cables, bungee cords, and sharp edge plastics. These are considered dangerous materials to use as they are much more likely to cause harm.
The Average Rope Cuts:
- 5 Meters for Hand and Feet Rope Ties
- 10 Meters for Small Bondage Ties (1/3 or 1/2 body ties)
- 20 Meters are usually enough for Full Body Bondage Ties
The Knots:
- Square Knot, Hitch (half, clove, anchor), Slipping Reef Knot, French Bowline Knot and more. There’s a more comprehensive explanation of knots here.
Different Uses for Rope Bondage:
There are many different ways you utilize rope bondage. One way is as a kind of discipline training for the submissive and encourages obedience. The loss of control for the sub will allow them to truly submit to their dominant. It can also serve as a form of punishment, predicament (how did I get here? 😉 ), and general restraints to restrict movement during any number of role play scenarios. They all have different effects during role play and should all be explored with agreed upon parties.
Rope bondage is a great way to further explore a dominant and submissive relationship, but it pays to be educated on each aspect of the role play ahead of time. This ensures the safety and comfort of both partners during said roleplay which allows more freedom to truly let go, explore, and enjoy the pleasures of a bdsm arrangement.
Good Luck!
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Sex On A Budget: Scarves For Bondage
Bondage can be an expensive taste.
For those who are frequent practitioners or simply love the lifestyle, it is a given that any quality bondage materials often can cost you quite a bit.
Therefore, finding quality restraints is often a problem experienced by those practiced and professed in the art of bondage.
So what if you’re simply an average user or bondage curious?
If you are only curious to try out bondage love or if you don’t dabble too deeply in kink, this tip could work well for you.
Simply employ some fabric scarves as love restraints!
This saves you money because scarves are often much cheaper than any bondage restraints available.
They work well for the average user and add a touch of sensuality to any session you might be having and are easily attainable at any clothing or accessories store or online for a small price.
Cons to using scarves during bondage play include the fact that for more intense users, scarves may rip or may not last long due to wear and tear, scarves may not hold well for your purposes, or the styles available for scarves may not suit your tastes, especially if you’re a lover of leather or other strong and durable materials.
All in all, if you are engage in mild bondage play, using scarves may work well for you in the bedroom.
If not, feel free to check out our bondage section for more durable options!
Have a Nice Weekend!
Good Luck!
11 Perfect Toys To Enjoy Your First Night Of 2011
While you’re guaranteed to all be partying in some way this New Year’s Eve & possibly New Year’s Day, I’ve conjured up (yep, I’m magical like that!) a list of toys I think would be fun to try your first night of the new year with a lover(s).
I hope you enjoy!
- Sex In the Shower Suction Handcuffs. While it’s not nearly as easy as it looks to have naughty fun in the shower, these cuffs certainly make things a bit easier and certainly more exciting! Enjoy the warm, wet sensations in the water this New Year’s Day!
- Fetish Fantasy Series Master & Servant Set. Take Control in 2011! Assert your dominance, independence and erotic power over your lover in the New Year! Enjoy this fun kit with restraints, collar & leash, and mask.
- Bondage Love Swing. Swing into the New Year kicking and screaming in ecstasy with the Bondage Love Swing! Enjoy new heights of lovemaking and pleasure with a fun sex swing; you may find yourself heartily enjoying 2011 even more!
- Icicles No. 5 Hand Blown Massager. Glass Toys offer a completely unique sexual experience all their own. You can use this toy in a variety of ways, including in the shower or hot tub, but two popular ways to use glass toys are by either heating up the glass or cooling the glass down before use. You can do this by heating up water in a bowl or pouring cold water into a bowl with ice cubes and then placing the toy into the bowl for around 5-10 minutes. It will become either hot or cold, depending on your preference and give you either a warming or cooling sensation during use. I find these toys great in the winter when I’m COLD!
- Fidelity Anal Fantasy #1. This is one of the first toys ever to enable couples to try Double Penetration without the help of a third party. A part of a series of 3 Double Penetration Toys, the Fidelity Anal Fantasy #1 is a great toy for those beginning anal fun, enables double penetration for a monogamous couple and feels incredible!
- Sweeten 69 Tablets for Him & Her. This natural supplement allows you and your partner to enjoy the fruity flavor of one another’s natural fluids during lovemaking and/or oral play. You’ll enjoy oral more than ever before!
- Sexy Graffiti Strawberry Body Paint. This unique body paint is strawberry flavored for a delicious taste and works well as a body paint and massage oil. Comes equipped with fun stencils for decorating body parts & unmentionables!
- Organic Sensual Massage Oil. Created with a unique blend of organic botanical ingredients, this massage oil feels and smells great. Rejuvenating and alluring, this massage oil is great for loosening inhibitions and helping both you and your partner let loose and relax.
- Kama Sutra Strawberries & Champagne Treasure Trove. A fun and romantic kit for couples, friends and singles ready to mingle, this Kama Sutra kit includes a variety of fun items all in the Strawberries & Champagne flavor.
- Spinning Dance Pole Kit. Whip yourself into shape the sexy way by pole dancing! In the new year, many flock to gyms and personal trainers, but this professional dance pole kit makes it fun, sexy, & gives you an incredible workout!
- 10.25″ Homeboy Dildo in Fauxskin. Prepare yourself for a completely realistic feel with this toy. This is NOT your average dildo! This toy feels completely soft and silky; almost better than the real thing! Standing tall at a little over 10 inches, 8 inches are insertable, making it a great size for most and a delightfully orgasmic experience for all!
Happy New Year!