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Fun Favors to Offer to Someone On Valentine’s Day

As you all know, Valentine’s Day can get a little crazy and consumer driven at times what with diamond rings, bling and other fun gift things, but I wanted to take the time to tell you all that there are plenty of other ways to show your appreciation and love without spending little to no money at all. The following are a few fun ways to pay favors to your special someone or even yourself.

Enjoy!

  • Enjoy a Spa Day At Home: You will need:Foot spa or Large Plastic Container, 1 Cup Sea Salt, 1/4 Cup Olive Oil, 2-3 washcloths/scrub brush/pumice stone, 1-2 large towels for drying off. Optional: Essential Oil of your Choice. Whether this means you’re treating yourself or your S.O., the process is basically the same. Fill a foot spa or large plastic container (larger tupper ware works if you don’t have a foot spa!) with warm to hot water. Add 1/2 cup of sea salt to the water and mix another 1/2 cup with 1/4 cup of olive oil. Set the olive oil/salt mix aside. Pull out 2-3 washcloths and 1-2 larger sized towels. You can also bring out any other scrub brushes or pumice stones, if you have them, but it’s not mandatory. You may also add some essential oil to the hot water foot spa to lend a nice, relaxing scent to the experience if you want. Either you or your S.O. may then proceed to enjoy a nice scrub and pedicure from you! If you’re by yourself, I recommend popping in a film and letting the sea salt do all the work. Sea salt is a great scrub that can work to dissolve the dead skin on your feet while also reducing the swelling that our feet endure everyday from walking, exercise, etc. You may also follow this with a massage or simply, the naughty ;). You know the drill!

  • Full Body Massage & More!: You Will Need: Your choice of massage oil, lubricant, and if you choose, massage tools. Of course, you knew this would be mentioned at some point or another! After all, what better way to show someone affection and love than through tender and sensual touch? This one is pretty simple and cheap. All you really need is massage oil. Simply have whoever you want to massage lie down, rub some massage oil onto your hands and massage as you please. Whether you choose to go more erotic or keep it platonic is up to you, but I recommend asking the person ahead of time if they have any back issues or neck problems to avoid any injury. If you’re single, invite a guy or girl friend over and take turns! There is nothing wrong with a little friendly relaxation! Plus, strictly platonic means you can chat and hang out in a stress free environment away from the V-Day insanity that will inevitably ensue in any public place you venture to on this day. If you’re taken, this might just be a nice change of pace for you and your significant other.

  • Wine & Dine: You Will Need: Recipes for the items you want to make, utensils, wine glasses, wine (over 21 ONLY Please!), a great mix CD, and lots of laughter! This is a great idea for friends and couples alike. Making dinner as a group or couple can both be great fun. You can choose recipes together to try and enjoy new flavors. Sip some great red or white wine while you test your culinary skills and enjoy the musical stylings of your favorite artists. Whatever follows is up to you!

See you later! 😉

 

Sex On A Budget: Bring Intimate Relaxation To Your Home!

In this economy, I know it’s hard. Believe me. But, that being said, I’m still a woman who wants to relax and visit a spa with my man for some mind-calming zen and intimacy. Now I really cannot afford to visit a high-end spa at the moment, especially given that their prices are so inflated, so I decided to bring the spa to our home. I mean, what better way to cool off (or heat up! 😉 this summer than by creating my own little spa paradise, right?

Here’s what I did and you can do it to for little to no cash!

First, create the space. Spas make the big bucks for a reason. They create a wonderful escape for people down to the last detail. Do the same; create your optimal environment for rest, relaxation and pleasure (if you want!) for the day or the whole weekend. Select relaxing and/or sexy sounds that can play in the background. Select color matching or all white towels if you plan on jumping in the bath or shower, exchanging massage treatments or something along those lines. Light candles with appealing scents or burn incense if you like. All of these things will create the environment that you both can enjoy and indulge in.

Second, decide how to treat yourselves. Do you have a pool or spa that you want to include or will you keep it private in the bath or shower? Do you want to treat your partner, they can treat you, or do you both agree to massage one another? Is it strictly relaxation or will it mix with pleasure? Will you include adult games of any sort? All of these things should be discussed in order to make the day and/or weekend the most fun for both of you.

Lastly, will you end the night with tasty treats? Do you wish to include food in your relaxing day/weekend? If so, light fruits and vegetables are highly recommended if you want to add pleasure to your weekend. Avoid any foods that are too heavy. Include wine or champagne if you wish and, if you prefer, a nice gourmet dinner at the end of the evening tops this relaxing getaway quite nicely!

Whatever you decide to do, remember to tailor it to your tastes and desires to make it the most enjoyable day or weekend possible. Have fun and enjoy yourself!

Good Luck!

Sex On A Budget: 10 Novelties Under $10

Night Light Glow in the Dark Condom; $2.49

This cute little condom is tons of fun! It glows in the dark (obviously) so you don’t have to ruin the romance with harsh lights.

Love Cuffs; $5.99

These cute furry handcuffs are tons of fun and plenty of bang for your buck!

Enjoy lusty bondage all night without breaking your bank!

 

Pleasures Edible Massage Oil; $1.99

This cute massage oil comes in a variety of flavors so anyone can find a special flavor that they love. Easily portable and conveniently travel size, this little massage oil will last you.

 

Spanish Fly Love Liquid Aphrodisiac; $4.99

This love liquid is delicious and gets you right into that sexy smoldering mood! With several tasty flavors to choose from, Spanish Fly Love Liquid Aphrodisiac is easily added to your coffee, juice or water anytime your ready for fun!

 

Purple Hard Vibe; $6.99

This vibe comes in a classy purple color and nice acrylic box. For the price, it is of a modest, but not tiny size that will offer a decent amount of vibrating pleasure. It is also perfectly portable and conveniently travel sized for anyone who is frequently on the move!

Silicone Island Pleasure Rings Set; $5.99

These extremely flexible jelly love rings work well for a man of any size and will stretch to accommodate then restrict to increase blood flow and sensitivity for solo and couples fun!

 

Razzels 4 Oz. Flavored Warming Lubricant; $8.99

This lubricant will last you quite a long time, especially considering it’s only 4 ounces! This lubricant is available in 2 delicious flavors: Apple & Strawberry and it’s also warming for extra stimulation.

Anal Blu Anal Lubricant 1.5 Oz.; $7.99

 

Original Rash-Free Coochy Shave Creme 4 Oz.; $6.99

Enjoy the lovely lathering of this Original Rash-Free Coochy Shaving Cream for making your lady parts (or man parts!) silky smooth. Doubling as a hair conditioner, this shaving cream may be used to condition your hair when you’ve run out or just for fun!

Lover’s Cocktail Warming Massage Lotion; $5.99

Available in 4 fun flavors, this warming massage lotion is a complete steal at $5.99! This fun warming massage lotion works well for sensuous massage to soothe sore muscles and arouse your sense any night of the week.

 

 

Sex On A Budget: Cheap Handheld Massagers Multitasking!

Are you suffering from stress?

Need to relax and unwind?

Let a simple back massager go to work for you and help you work out the kinks in your back and your bed!

Okay, so I know it sounds kind of ridiculous, but a back massager works much in the same way that a clit or handy massager would. In fact, they hold basically the same functions with differing modes of vibration to help stimulate muscles. The only difference is they are designed to stimulate different muscle groups.

And, yes, your nether regions are made up of muscles!

So, my proposal is if you happen to already have a back massager or plan to purchase one to relieve some stress or back pain, why not put the massager on double shifts to help please you in the bedroom and on your back? After all, the prices for both types of massagers are usually similar in range and should work equally well.

The only thing you should consider is that #1: if you don’t have back pain, why bother with a back massager at all? If that’s the case, you may as well buy a normal vibrator. And, #2: it’s inadvisable to insert back massagers vaginally. Although it may not cause much if any harm to you, they aren’t made to be inserted anywhere and thus shouldn’t be. Therefore, stimulation in an erotic way with a back massager is kind of limited, but you will definitely be saving money if you intend to implement the massager for both your bodily massage needs and your erotic massage needs!

All in all, if you don’t have too much bodily pain or soreness, you may as well invest in a normal vibrator. We have plenty of decently priced vibrators on Romance Attack to choose from. If you do need a back massager for pains or stress relief, then this idea could be something to consider, especially if you already own one. If in the end, you prefer to keep your back relief and sexual frustration relief duties separated, simply take a look around our shop and pick out an affordable vibrator. We have plenty of affordable options to choose from.

Three Cheers for Saving Money!

Good Luck!