Enjoy Holidays the Right Way!
As you know, the holidays are a time of giving thanks, offering gifts and being merry, so what better way to show your honey how much you appreciate them than to give them the gift of pleasure?
I know, it seems contrite, but hear me out!
If you take the time to plan it out and make it extra special, it can definitely be enjoyable for all involved parties ;).
Firstly, remember to create the space and establish the most appropriate for your pleasure goals. Whether this means lots of pillows, soft and silky blankets or whips, chains and cuffs, you know what to do!
Secondly, decide what events you want to take place during your holiday pleasure-filled gift. They don’t need to be complicated. They can be as simple as take a bath together, give mutual massage, and then try several new fun positions! Otherwise, you can play a little S&M followed by teasing, tickling and more! Whatever your flavor, make it fun for both you and your partner.
Lastly, remember its the little things that count the most! Whatever products you prefer, that is, your favorite lubricants, massage oils, tools, crops and kits should all be present and play a part in making the night as magical as possible!
Finally, remember to have a great time and enjoy yourself!
‘Tis the Season!
Enjoy the holidays!
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Top Calorie-Burning Sex Positions!
Want to work out while you get it on?
Who doesn’t, right?
Well there’s good news: you can!
I love multi-tasking, especially where burning calories is concerned. Anything to burn, burn, burn, and I’m on board!
Here are my top favorite sex positions for working out various muscle groups.
Enjoy!
- Working Out Your Butt: Missionary! I know, this seems surprising and maybe even overrated, but did you know that the movements of your partner thrusting towards you and you using your core to thrust back enthusiastically will give both of you buns of steel? Not only that, but the thruster 😉 will get a great leg workout while you get a great core and glute workout!
- Pelvic & Lower Ab Muscles: Woman On Top! That’s right, ladies, it’s time to get over your shyness of being on top because I promise you, it’s worth the risk! This totally pleasing position will not only feel great, but will also work your lower abs (often neglected in normal exercise!), your glutes (bootay-licious!), pelvic floor muscles (for a tight V and a slim lower abdomen), and your quads will get some toning as well.
- Butt & Thighs: Arch Position! This position is done by laying with your back on the bed, arching your lower torso up toward your partner who rises to meet you. This position mainly works the glutes and thighs, but engages many other muscle groups respectively including the core, inner thighs, quads and calves!
- Want to Stretch Stiff Muscles? Try the Lunge Position! Done simply by extending into a lunge stretch with your opposite leg supporting on your knee and thrusting over your partner, this will work many different muscle groups and also work to stretch out the legs, hamstrings, core, inner and outer thighs, and of course, the butt.
- Legs & Core: Doggie Style! This is a great position for both partners. The giver can engage both legs and core while thrusting while the receiver braces for impact and engages quadriceps and glute muscles as well as core ab muscles. For a more arm-toning workout, try an adjusted version of this position by positioning your arms against the wall and using them to push against the wall, thereby creating great arm resistance for various arm muscle groups.
While it’s true that the coming winter months may leave you less than motivated to work out outdoors, these “sexercises” should keep you more than toned until next Spring!
After all, ’tis the season to be jolly, right?
11 New Things To Try In Bed
- New Positions: If you want something simple to try, new positions can definitely make things more exciting in the bedroom. Requiring only a computer or positions book to find positions, this one will keep you busy all night long! For a list of sex positions that also burn calories, click here.
- Mutual Masturbation: This requires a little bit of trust and a lot of confidence. Although it may make you feel a little self-conscious, this can be a lot of fun and really enjoyable for both parties. For more on masturbation, click here.
- Anal Sex: Trying anal sex is not for everyone, but many do find it to be extremely pleasurable. I recommend you do research on this in order to prevent pain and/or injuries as there is a certain technique when first starting out. For more information on anal sex, click here.
- BDSM: This one is not for the faint at heart! Kinky sex is not for everyone, but for a large community of people, kink brings a whole other level of pleasure (and sometimes a little pain) to your sex life. If you’re unsure whether you’d enjoy this sort of thing, you can always start out easy and try handcuffs or a blindfold to see if you like it or not before moving onto more advanced play. Find out more about BDSM here. Get the 411 on Spanking here.
- Toys: This can be a fun area to try for both parties! There are a wide variety of toys out there, including couples toys, that anyone can try and enjoy. Plus, you can enjoy these toys alone or together, whichever you choose. Check out our toy selections here. Check out more on how sex toys work and the different types of toys by clicking here. For a list of fun toys to try, check out my article here.
- Play Dress Up: This could mean a number of things. For some, this might just mean getting dressed up in skimpy lingerie for your partner. For others, this could mean full on cosplay or naughty schoolgirl roleplaying. Check out my article on lingerie for your body type here. Which brings me to…
- Roleplaying: Yep! Roleplaying. Roleplaying can be fun for both parties, especially if you’re into a specific fantasy or have an out of this world fetish. Plus, it’s just fun to dress up and play a role, isn’t it?
- Pole Dancing: If you have kids, this might not be so easy to try, although they do sell collapsing poles now that are mobile and easy to take down after using to store. This can be fun for a number of reasons:For one, dancers get to show off their sexy side by dressing and moving in a sexual way to please their partner. Those on the receiving end get to enjoy the show and maybe a lap dance! Check out my 5 Reasons Every Woman Should Pole Dance article here.
- Menage-a-Trois (Threesome): Depending on the relationship you have, this could or could not be something you want to try. Communication is key and finding out whether you both share the same fantasy or are even willing to try something like this. It also involves careful planning so that there is no jealousy involved and that everyone is truly okay with the arrangement. Want to experience a 3-some without a third party? Click here for how to do it!
- Sex in Public/ Places: Sex in public is, admittedly, illegal. I am not suggesting you go somewhere public and get it on, but I am suggesting you enjoy yourself in any environment different than where you normal would to create a nice change of pace. Whether that’s in your kitchen or laundry room or maybe somewhere else, I’ll leave that to your discretion. Just make sure it doesn’t involve you and your partner getting arrested! For fun places to have sex, check out a list here.
- Tantric Sex: This is a different kind of sex entirely. Some claim this to be highly spiritual and it’s actually frequently linked to yoga practitioners. Tantra is considered a spiritual experience wherein the prolonged enjoyment of sex leads to a higher state of being. To read more on tantric sex, check out my article on it here.
- Food: Food and your senses can make sex a lot more fun and interesting. Whether this means whip cream, chocolate syrup, ice, or edible body paints is up to you. There’s also the option of inserting certain unmentionables into your unmentionables, but that’s all to your discretion! To find out more on which foods increase your libido check out articles vol. 1 & vol. 2 for a list of foods to help libido. For foods to naturally cure impotence, click here.