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Is the “Squirting” Phenomenon Real?

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Is the “Squirting” Phenomenon Real?

Squirting is something you may have heard of before, but you might not know the finer details about what is actually happening during this sexual phenomenon. “Squirting” is caused by putting on a female’s prostate or “g-spot” and if enough pressure is applied to this area, it can cause the woman to urinate. Not technically an orgasm, the actually squirting may include a mixture of urine and cum because said person is already (presumably) engaged in sexual activities. That said, the urine is what is being released during squirting and what is ejaculated out of a woman. The liquid ejaculated during squirting is mainly clear. Most women who have experienced the squirting phenomenon claim to experience more intensely satisfying climaxes during squirting than a typical orgasm.

How You Can Get Your Partner to Squirt: 

You will want to stimulate your partner with your fingers in order to feel around for her g-spot. It is usually located toward the front wall of the vagina, but each woman is different. You will know you’ve located it because your partner will respond to the sensitive area and also because the area may feel raise, swollen or rough in texture which helps it stand out against other areas. Your partner may feel as though they have to urinate when this area is stimulated, but as long as she has previously urinated, this is perfectly fine. She may also feel some pressure so it’s important to encourage your partner to relax in order to continue stimulating this area to the point of squirting. Your partner can encourage the likelihood of squirting by pushing with her pelvic floor muscles, but keep in mind that there may be a lot of liquid ejaculated once she begins squirting so preparation is ideal. You’ll want to put towels down if you’re worried about a mess. Don’t be discouraged if no squirting happens because not everyone squirts when this area is stimulated, but also be patient in exploring whether or not this kind of stimulation is for you. And remember to be gentle, take your time, and enjoy!

Stay Safe & Naughty 😉

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Bondage Eye Masks to Add to Your Naughty Halloween Costume!

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Bondage Eye Masks to Add to Your Naughty Halloween Costume!

Halloween is almost here and if you plan on going to a naughtier Halloween event, bondage masks are a great way to achieve the costume look without too much effort. If you want to apply some makeup to make the look more intense, you can, but otherwise, some sleek leather, latex or other form-fitting clothes are ideal for giving yourself a sexy costume this year.

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These high quality 100% authentic leather masks have a darker feel to them that’s fun at kinky events or at home, role playing with a partner. The sky is the limit!

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How to Maintain Sexual Health this Fall

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This post is a bit different than our normal wild selves, but I think it’s very important to keep your health in mind when the seasons change. Namely when the weather turns cold, it’s important to keep your immunity boosted, eat well, stay active, and enjoy a balanced sense of well being. All of these things can help improve your sexual health and actually improve your sex life, sexual stamina, and more if followed so read on for tips!

How to Maintain Sexual Health this Fall

  • Try Tantra. Tantra is the art of meditation during sex. It’s aim is to help you reach higher states of pleasure and ecstasy. Although tantra does not always focus on sex, there is a big emphasis on intimacy. If you think tantra is a bit strange, you can start improving sexual health and well being with these yoga poses to increase your libido instead or just get fit with your partner. Working out with your partner helps increase the feeling of closeness and bonding with them and also helps amp up your sex drive for after workout fun 😉
  • Eat Well. Even though it’s tempting to indulge in all the comfort foods, desserts, and lay around all bundled up this fall, make sure you get your fill of healthy foods. Some foods can help boost your libido more than others so be sure to check out our list of fall foods that help increase your libido naturally.
  • Try New Things. This last one is less obvious than the others, but just as important. If you feel your sex life has gone by the wayside or now feels dull and boring, try mixing things up! Give these naughty fall ideas a go, try new sex toys, new sex positions, or simply talk about what you both like in bed. Communication is the first step to a better sex life and then, before you know it, you’ll be enjoying all your fantasies in real time.

Stay Safe & Naughty 😉

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3 Reasons to Have An Affair

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Sure, cheating’s not the most ethical thing we could do, but it’s quite the rush, don’t ya think? Besides the morality issue with cheating, I can think of a whole lot of reasons why it’s something you should try, at least once in your life. After all, you only live once 😉 so here are 3 positive reasons to have an affair!

3 Reasons to Have An Affair

  1.  Longer, Better Orgasms. Okay, so this is subjective, but it’s true to say that when you’re having an affair, the excitement of getting caught alone will get you hot and heavy. Add to that the feeling of letting go of your inhibitions and it’s a recipe for the big O! Since you’re more likely to experiment, feel less ashamed, and truly be yourself during an affair, sexual experimentation is a go and that always leads to – you got it – longer, better orgasms.
  2. More Exciting Sex. Just as the orgasms are better, so too is the overall excitement. Because you’ll have limited time to be together and have the fear of getting caught looming over you, you’ll want to get right down to business without delay! This amps up your heart rate which really gets your blood pumping…
  3. It’s A Total Rush! Like I said, it’s an absolute and total rush to have an affair, especially if you happen to work with that person! Meeting up for only a short amount of time for a little hot and heavy action is a huge adrenaline rush and that’s probably why we keep coming back for more 😉

So maybe you still don’t want to have an affair and that’s okay, but for those of us who do, well, now we know exactly why we enjoy the heat of those moments so much!

Stay Safe & Naughty 😉

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Your Guide to Erotic Biting

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Although we’re not all self-proclaimed vamps in bed, I think it’s safe to say everyone enjoys a little erotic biting now and again. Whether it’s on the neck, thighs, or someplace a little more intimate, biting can be a sign of passion, aggression and sensual pleasure. If you’re new to this kind of token of affection, our guide is just the thing you need to get a handle on trying it out for yourself and enjoying a little gentle (or not so gentle) nibbling of your own!

Your Guide to Erotic Biting

  • Test the Waters: If you’ve never tried erotic biting in bed with a partner, you might want to take things slow. Test the waters by gently grazing their neck or collar bone with your teeth as you kiss them. You don’t want to go gnawing away at someone who might not be into it so it’s best to ease into things. If you’re really unsure, you can speak with your partner directly and see if that’s something they’re okay with. Communication is key!
  • Where to Bite: Where you decide to dig your teeth in (however gently) is up to you and your partner, but there are specific erogenous zones that will act as pleasure spots for your partner. These are great places to start if you’re new to sensual biting. These pleasure hot spots include your neck, collar bone, lips, thighs, butt, and even breasts, vagina (if they’re okay with it!), and inner wrists. Be gentle until you know if you’re partner is into it and communicate what you both like to determine the best plan of action, intensity, etc.
  • How to Bite: As I previously said, you don’t want to go gnawing away at your partner without their consent. That’s the quickest way to kill the mood if they’re not into it. If they are okay with gentle biting, however, make sure your bites are quick, gentle, and don’t break skin. On top of that, intimate areas are completely off limits unless you and your partner agree it’s okay to do so. And remember: hickies are tacky.
  • Slowly Increase Intensity: Again, erotic biting is something you’ll want to ease into. Gentle biting here and there as you kiss and caress your partner is a great way to build up the intensity over time. The pressure and intensity of the bites all depend on you and your partner’s tastes so be sure to communicate how you feel, what you like, and what you don’t so that your partner can reciprocate their desires as well.

Good Luck!

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Your Guide to Erotic Biting

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Although we’re not all self-proclaimed vamps in bed, I think it’s safe to say everyone enjoys a little erotic biting now and again. Whether it’s on the neck, thighs, or someplace a little more intimate, biting can be a sign of passion, aggression and sensual pleasure. If you’re new to this kind of token of affection, our guide is just the thing you need to get a handle on trying it out for yourself and enjoying a little gentle (or not so gentle) nibbling of your own!

Your Guide to Erotic Biting

  • Test the Waters: If you’ve never tried erotic biting in bed with a partner, you might want to take things slow. Test the waters by gently grazing their neck or collar bone with your teeth as you kiss them. You don’t want to go gnawing away at someone who might not be into it so it’s best to ease into things. If you’re really unsure, you can speak with your partner directly and see if that’s something they’re okay with. Communication is key!
  • Where to Bite: Where you decide to dig your teeth in (however gently) is up to you and your partner, but there are specific erogenous zones that will act as pleasure spots for your partner. These are great places to start if you’re new to sensual biting. These pleasure hot spots include your neck, collar bone, lips, thighs, butt, and even breasts, vagina (if they’re okay with it!), and inner wrists. Be gentle until you know if you’re partner is into it and communicate what you both like to determine the best plan of action, intensity, etc.
  • How to Bite: As I previously said, you don’t want to go gnawing away at your partner without their consent. That’s the quickest way to kill the mood if they’re not into it. If they are okay with gentle biting, however, make sure your bites are quick, gentle, and don’t break skin. On top of that, intimate areas are completely off limits unless you and your partner agree it’s okay to do so. And remember: hickies are tacky.
  • Slowly Increase Intensity: Again, erotic biting is something you’ll want to ease into. Gentle biting here and there as you kiss and caress your partner is a great way to build up the intensity over time. The pressure and intensity of the bites all depend on you and your partner’s tastes so be sure to communicate how you feel, what you like, and what you don’t so that your partner can reciprocate their desires as well.

Good Luck!

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