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How to Choose the Perfect Sex Toy for Your Partner

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How to Choose the Perfect Sex Toy for Your Partner

If you are looking to purchase the perfect sex toy for your partner, but you don’t know where to start, this post is for you! I have laid out a few tips and tricks on what to look for, how to find out what your partner likes and wants in a toy, and you can have it delivered by Valentine’s Day with the deals going on in our online store so read on 😉

  • Figure Out What Your Partner Likes. If you don’t know what your partner likes or you aren’t sure, then you’ll want to do some digging. Do they enjoy a certain kind of porn? Are they into anal? Is their ultimate fantasy a threesome? All of these things will determine what toy will work best for them and bring a smile to their face on February 14th.
  • Ask Probing Questions. If you have no idea where to start or no idea what your partner is into, then it’s a good idea to begin asking some probing questions. Of course, you probably don’t want them to know what you’re up to so it’s a good idea to ask “what if” type questions or address them in a roundabout way. You can do so by asking things like, “would you ever try anal?” or “what do you think about threesomes?” Insert other topics and converse with your partner to really figure out what they’re into or might be into experimenting with.
  • Decide On the Perfect Toy. Once you have an idea of what they might enjoy in a toy, then it’s time to shop! Anal toys for anal lovers, threesome toys for those with menage-a-trois fantasies, yiff and furry play, or some classic realistic dildos.

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3 Reasons to Have An Affair

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Sure, cheating’s not the most ethical thing we could do, but it’s quite the rush, don’t ya think? Besides the morality issue with cheating, I can think of a whole lot of reasons why it’s something you should try, at least once in your life. After all, you only live once 😉 so here are 3 positive reasons to have an affair!

3 Reasons to Have An Affair

  1.  Longer, Better Orgasms. Okay, so this is subjective, but it’s true to say that when you’re having an affair, the excitement of getting caught alone will get you hot and heavy. Add to that the feeling of letting go of your inhibitions and it’s a recipe for the big O! Since you’re more likely to experiment, feel less ashamed, and truly be yourself during an affair, sexual experimentation is a go and that always leads to – you got it – longer, better orgasms.
  2. More Exciting Sex. Just as the orgasms are better, so too is the overall excitement. Because you’ll have limited time to be together and have the fear of getting caught looming over you, you’ll want to get right down to business without delay! This amps up your heart rate which really gets your blood pumping…
  3. It’s A Total Rush! Like I said, it’s an absolute and total rush to have an affair, especially if you happen to work with that person! Meeting up for only a short amount of time for a little hot and heavy action is a huge adrenaline rush and that’s probably why we keep coming back for more 😉

So maybe you still don’t want to have an affair and that’s okay, but for those of us who do, well, now we know exactly why we enjoy the heat of those moments so much!

Stay Safe & Naughty 😉

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3 Reasons to Have An Affair

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Sure, cheating’s not the most ethical thing we could do, but it’s quite the rush, don’t ya think? Besides the morality issue with cheating, I can think of a whole lot of reasons why it’s something you should try, at least once in your life. After all, you only live once 😉 so here are 3 positive reasons to have an affair!

3 Reasons to Have An Affair

  1.  Longer, Better Orgasms. Okay, so this is subjective, but it’s true to say that when you’re having an affair, the excitement of getting caught alone will get you hot and heavy. Add to that the feeling of letting go of your inhibitions and it’s a recipe for the big O! Since you’re more likely to experiment, feel less ashamed, and truly be yourself during an affair, sexual experimentation is a go and that always leads to – you got it – longer, better orgasms.
  2. More Exciting Sex. Just as the orgasms are better, so too is the overall excitement. Because you’ll have limited time to be together and have the fear of getting caught looming over you, you’ll want to get right down to business without delay! This amps up your heart rate which really gets your blood pumping…
  3. It’s A Total Rush! Like I said, it’s an absolute and total rush to have an affair, especially if you happen to work with that person! Meeting up for only a short amount of time for a little hot and heavy action is a huge adrenaline rush and that’s probably why we keep coming back for more 😉

So maybe you still don’t want to have an affair and that’s okay, but for those of us who do, well, now we know exactly why we enjoy the heat of those moments so much!

Stay Safe & Naughty 😉

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Your Single Ladies Guide to Masturbation

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Your Single Ladies Guide to Masturbation

 For us single ladies who enjoy many indulgent and pleasurable nights in, we value our “me” time. Since I know self-pleasure is where it’s at, I thought I’d come up with a few tips to help you enjoy your solo nights to the absolute fullest 😉

  1. Make Sure You’re Alone – First off, make sure you’re alone! Whether that means sneaking off by yourself or waiting til nobody’s home, it’s up to you; just make sure your door is locked!
  2. Pick the Perfect Toy – The next thing you want to do is pick the perfect toy(s). What are you into? Vibrators, vibrating dildos, realistic dildos, or pure anal toys? Pick your favorites and make sure they’re handy wherever you plan to have your fun.
  3. Have Lubricants At Arm’s Length – After that, be sure you have your favorite lubricants on hand. If you plan to use toys for your masturbation session, you’ll want to make sure you’re using a water based lubricant so that they don’t conflict with your toys (silicone lubes will break down toy materials).
  4. Explore Your Pleasure Spots – Now that you have all your pleasure tools, it’s time for some fun! Explore your erogenous zones, methods of masturbation, and see what you enjoy. You never know until you try and alone time is the perfect moment to see what you like 😉
  5. Entertain Yourself – If you want a little entertainment, put on your favorite naughty film! It can be as tame or wild as you like; just make sure you have some headphones if you have roommates or aren’t totally alone.
  6. Enjoy A Hot Shower – Once you’re done or if you prefer a unique erotic experience, hop in the shower for some wet fun!

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Good Luck 😉

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Your Guide to Cuffing Season

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If you don’t already know what cuffing season is, cuffing season refers to the fall and winter periods where some people find a temporary partner to enjoy the season with. The purpose? Doing all the fun things couples like to do during the colder periods: cuddling, spooning, watching Netflix, sex, and more. So, if you happen to be single and want to get cuffed down for the fall and winter, read on for tips!

Your Guide to Cuffing Season

  • How to Find A Cuffing Partner – You can choose between Craigslist or a more legit dating site, but make sure you denote that you’re seeking a partner for “cuffing season” or a “temporary mate.” Being upfront about your goals, intentions, and feelings will ensure that nobody gets hurt. It’s all in good fun and companionship for the season. If you prefer to meet someone in person more organically, then make sure you’re going out with friends. You can go out to bars, restaurants, parks, karaoke, grocery stores, and more. Go with friends and have someone be your wing-man, introduce you to people if you’re shy, and chat you up to potential cuff-mates. This is a great way to scope out potential partners!
  • How to Increase Your Appeal – Cuffing season is a great way to enjoy companionship and couples’ life, but there are various ways to increase your appeal and ensure you hook a temporary mate. You can buy new perfumes, wear bright colors to stand out, and be more open to meeting new people.
  • Why to Cuff Up – The fall and winter seasons can be such a fun time, but it can also be lonely if you go it alone. It’s great to have a mate to take to holiday parties, exchange gifts with, and enjoy some cuddling, netflix and sex with. It’s also awesome to stick with one partner during this season rather than a bunch of different partners to reduce your risk of STD’s. You might also end up meeting someone you want to keep around through spring; who knows?

Cuffing season is a fun time for a temporary mate and you never know; you might end up meeting someone worthwhile. At the same time, it can still be just for fun seasonal companionship and that’s okay too. If you’re looking to cuff up for the season, now’s the time to do it. You want to make sure you have a mate for upcoming Halloween parties so get on it 😉

Stay Safe & Naughty 😉

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Top 5 Most Passionate & Sexually Active Countries

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Top 5 Most Passionate & Sexually Active Countries

Although we most often associate sexual energy and passion with the French and Spanish, you might be surprised to learn that they don’t round out the top 3 of the most passionate, sexually satisfied, and sexually active countries in the world. Read on to find which ones made the cut!

87% of adults in Greece claim to have sex at least once a week, but they only came in at 5 for most sexually satisfied so quality over quantity right? Nigeria, Mexico and India beat out the top 3 spots for sexually satisfied which is pretty surprising to say the least! Brazil ranked in at 82% of people having sex at least once per week, but they didn’t rank at all in the top 10 most sexually satisfied countries. Russia comes in at 80% where people have sex at least one time a week, but again, didn’t rank at all among the most sexually satisfied. China is not one you’d expect to see on a list of sexually active countries given how outwardly conservative their culture is, but they rank #3 for most sexually active at 78% of people claiming to have sex at least once a week! Alas, no ranking for most sexually satisfied. Last, but not least, Italy comes in at #5 with 76% being sexually active at least once per week, but again, no ranking on sexually satisfied list. I guess you can never equate sexual activity with sexual satisfaction, but we already knew that! On the flip side of things, the most romantic countries are as predicted: Italy, France, Spain, Brazil, and Argentina.

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3 Reasons to Be Unashamed of Your Cougar Status

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3 Reasons to Be Unashamed of Your Cougar Status

There’s nothing shameful about being an attractive older woman. People might try to shame you into oblivion, but why should you? You’re most likely beautiful, successful, and easily able to get the attention of all men, even those younger than yourself. Others might not understand your lifestyle, but there’s no reason you shouldn’t revel in it. Here are 3 reasons to be unashamed of your “cougar” status as an attractive, successful, and confident woman.

  1. Be Confident – Dating who you want, doing what you want; it’s all a part of being an attractive older woman. A “cougar,” if you will. Being bold enough to take what you want with no apologies is just one of the perks of your life and it makes you your most confident self.
  2. Be Carefree – Life should be fun and, at any age, you should enjoy yourself! Indulging in the best that life has to offer, whether in dating or not, is one of the best perks of being who you are. Being with someone who has those same ideals is nothing to scoff at. Be happy and carefree as you like; you deserve it!
  3. Own Your Sexuality – The main thing about dating someone younger than yourself is owning your sexuality. You’re in control of you; nobody is going to tie you down. You’re a beautiful, sexual human being and you should live that to the fullest.

At the end of the day, you choose your life. Nobody else can take that from you unless you let them. If other people don’t understand your choices, well, that’s on them; not you. Don’t worry about what others might think. You know what’s right for you and only you can make you happy.

Power On, Cougars 😉

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How to Make Sex More Spiritual

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How to Make Sex A Spiritual Experience

Sex is wonderful in and of itself, but if you’re looking for something a little more fulfilling to your spiritual life and want to take sex to a higher level, I came up with a few tips to help you get there!

  • Connect With Your Partner(s). Obviously, the first step to a higher level of intimacy is connecting with your partner(s). Because spirituality is a connection of the mind and spirit, you want to be at total ease and comfort with whoever you are engaging erotic activities with. There are easy ways to connect with your partner on this level that you can try, as you like, but my favorites include meditating and/or yoga practice together, weight lifting together, engaging in personal conversation without distraction, indulging in a bath or shower together, and giving one another an erotic massage. Take things slow; that’s where the magic happens!
  • Sex Meditation. Sex meditation isn’t just sitting around doing nothing, though I know a lot of people might have this belief about it. Meditation can be any number of things: making eye contact with your partner without speaking, bathing together in silence, and/or just lying next to one another without doing anything else. Meditation is a focused intention on being with one another without having to do, be, or say anything and this will help you both further connect.
  • Try Tantra. Once you feel a strong intimate bond with one another, you can take things to a higher precipice of ecstasy by indulging in tantra. There are many ways to engage in tantra, but the basics of it are slow, intense, engaged, sexual pleasure and it’s very much rooted in a connection with your partner. You can get more tips on tantra here and read about the history of tantra here.

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Try Yoga For Better Sex!

Everyone knows that yoga is great for your health, but did you know it can also help improve your sex life?

Aside from the obvious improvements gained by any type of exercise, yoga has a variety of benefits that will improve both your health and sex life. The most noticeable effects of practicing yoga are a reduction in stress, increased energy levels, better sleep, and improved flexibility which can all contribute to a better sex life. The less noticeable but nonetheless impacting effects of yoga include increased blood flow to the pelvic area with the consistent practice of yoga poses which can offer more intense sensations during sex and ultimate orgasm, an improve in your overall sense of self confidence as studies show people who practice yoga are less likely to gain weight over time as they age, and an increase in self respect and self love as yoga teaches that the body is a temple to be revered and protected.

Yoga also improves the ability to be receptive to others without judgment at times of vulnerability( as is usually the case during sex) as it brings increased awareness of your own body and sensitivity to the vibes and moods of others thereby  assisting you in better pleasing your partner and communicating what it is that you like and want during intimacy. Yoga helps you to be fully in the moment and present when you spend intimate time with your partner as many practices require complete relaxation of both the body and the mind, providing practitioners with an undeniable state of clarity.

To practice yoga, seek out your local gym as most offer yoga classes free with memberships or a local yoga studio nearest you. Prices are not unreasonable, especially considering what you receive in return.

If you’re a beginner & are unsure about taking a class try these simple tips:

  • Deep Breathing: Close your eyes and sit or lay on the floor (however is most comfortable). Take slow deep breaths in as you mentally count to 10 and then exhale for 10. Repeat as many times as you wish, but try and aim for at least 10 inhales and 10 exhales a day. It’s a great refresher and will reduce anxiety and stress immediately.
  • Butterfly Pose: This pose may sound unfamiliar, but I’ve bet you’ve done it during stretching at gym class. Simply sit on the floor with the bottom of your feet touching, knees bent, parallel to the floor. Bend your torso, at the waist, over your legs for a nice long stretch. Do this in combination with deep breathing techniques.
  • Super Man: Everyone does this, even babies. Lie on your stomach with your hands resting on the floor over your head, palms to the floor. Slowly, lift up your legs and hands, arching your back slightly. Hold for 10 (remember to breathe!) and then lower for ten. Repeat at least 5 times. Enjoy flying!
  • Plank: This might be more known to pilates lovers, but is so effective everyone should do it. Cherished by active women everywhere for it’s ability to tone, tighten and strength the ab muscles, plank is done by bending your arms (at the elbow) into a 45 degree angle forearms against the floor. Using your forearms as support, raise onto your toes, with your legs straight out behind you, paralell to the floor. It should look like you’re doing a push up, only you’re not going anywhere and your forearms are holding you in place instead of your hands. All you have to do is hold it for 30 second intervals. Hold 30, rest 30. Repeat as many times as you can.

Good Luck!


6 Common Sex Myths Debunked

Sex Myths seem to emerge everywhere, often times created marketing  & advertising, perpetuated by W.O.M. (Word of Mouth) rumors and pop culture. For this reason, I have decided to unveil the truth to some of these rumors and show the truth in the myth ( if there is any)!

  • Men Get More Sexual Urges Than Women

The Truth: Men and women actually have about equal sexual urges, which fluctuates throughout the day, triggered by various factors such as desire, sleep, health, confidence, stress & relationship status.

  • Sex is Unimportant the Older You Are

The Truth: Sex is a huge factor in the overall mental & physical health of any person, regardless of how old you are.

  • Big Hands & Feet Mean a Large Penis

The Truth: Although we may all have a blast gauging each other with this method, hands & feet size has nothing to do with penis size.

  • Oral Sex is Safer than Anal or Vaginal Intercourse

The Truth: Oral sex is just that: Sex. Any kind of sex involves the exchange of bodily fluids which can still transfer STI’s/STD’s through small cuts or sores in the mouth as well as the throat.

  • The “Pull Out” Method is a Viable Birth Control Option

The Truth: “Pulling Out,” also known as the withdrawal method, should never be used as a form of birth control as there is no way to control or detect the point at which ejaculation occurs, but also because during the time of climax no one has spot-on judgment.

  • A Woman Can’t Get Pregnant if You Have Sexual Intercourse During  Menstruation

The Truth: Although pregnancy is less likely to occur during that “Time of the Month,” it is still a possibility however rare it may be.

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