7 Healthy Sex Habits for 2012!
- Check yourself before you wreck yourself! That’s right, get checked for STD’s every 6 months or at least once a year and stay healthy!
- Break down the communication wall. Check in with your partner about what each of you enjoys in bed and what you don’t. Strong communication is the key to any healthy relationship, whether purely for fun or more serious.
- Practice proper hygiene. I know, this sounds super basic, but just in case you forgot you should wash yourself! Just one more thing you and your partner can do together! 😉
- Laugh it off! Funny things happen during sexual exploration every now and again. It’s inevitable. So, let it roll off your shoulder and laugh it off! Everyone is human and with that comes…specific obligations.. No, but seriously. Take a chill pill and LAUGH!
- Respect yourself before you neglect yourself! I know it sounds like a slogan, but hey, they may be onto something. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please contact the necessary help lines. There is help and options are available to you. Don’t suffer in silence. AND It DOES get better! Check out SafeHorizon.Org for more information.
- Get Creative! Try something new this year with your partner! Whether that means a new position or two, anal play, or simply more massages (Yes!), get creative and explore what you can both enjoy. Variety is the spice of life and helps add dimension to a relationship.
- Have more of it! Yes, I am aiding and abetting you both to have more sex. It’s GOOD for you! No really, it is. Check out my article here on why it does your body good!
Whatever your goals, remember to stay healthy, happy and laughing in 2012!
That’s all for now!
Good luck!
10 Sexy New Years’ Resolutions That Should Be On Your List!
So with the new year comes a slew of the inevitable new years’ resolutions that we all pencil into our list of things we would like to get done this year and, with that, I propose a separate list for all things naughty! I have compiled my own list here, but feel free to steal ideas from it if something piques your interest; I’m always happy to share! 😉
1. Use my vibrator more! I spent nearly $100 on this incredible vibe, but I hardly use it. I vow to get my money’s worth!
2. Give and receive more body massages.
3. Offer more sexual favors to my boyfriend. He’s awesome; he deserves it!
4. Try new and exciting sex positions.
5. Enjoy sex in the rain.
6. Be more pro-active and in the moment during sex. No more thinking about laundry!
7. Get up early and enjoy morning sex. < This is going to be so difficult!
8. Utilize more sex toys in my relationship.
9. Enjoy a variety of lubricants and massage oils with my partner.
10. Try edible body painting!
That’s my list!
Hope you enjoy and feel free to post your list in the comments if you like!
Sex On A Budget: DIY Natural Lubricant & Massage Oil
Lubricants can be somewhat costly to a person on a strict budget and you may not always have the cash needed to put down to get your favorite brand, but there is a convenient substitute that you might find more affordable in the meantime.
Natural carrier oils may be used as natural lubricants and massage oils as long as they are purely made. There are organic versions abound online and they are pretty affordable. Although they lack the smart formulation, enticing fragrances, and other special effects of brand lubricants, they are still a natural and usually safe option as natural lubricants. Although most carrier oils are safe for use as is, be sure to do your own research on how safe various carrier oils are before deciding to use them. You may also decide to add in your own essential oils for special stimulating effects, but be sure to do your own research beforehand if you are unsure how much to use as essential oils can be very strong in concentration and can irritate skin if not diluted in the oil enough. One might also consider utilizing natural butters for use as a masturbation cream such as shea butter or kokum butter. These are safe for use on skin as is.
Some Great Carrier Oils and Natural Butters Are:
- Almond Oil
- Carrot Seed Oil
- Grapeseed Oil
- Shea Butter
- Kokum Butter
Essential Oils for Stimulating Effects:
- Spearmint EO (Cooling)
- Cinnamon EO (Stimulating/Warming)
Although making your own lubricant or massage oil can be more work, it is easily tailored to your qualifications this way. It may not have the same smooth consistency or pleasant scent of a store bought lubricant or massage oil, but it is a nice alternative if that is not an option for you. If you absolutely prefer to purchase these items, then do so. It is important that you feel comfortable with what goes on your body so you can enjoy yourself fully.
Check out our selection of massage oils and lubricants for some great deals on all varieties including organic and stimulating varieties.
Good Luck!
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Have a Nice Weekend!
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6 Common Sex Myths Debunked
Sex Myths seem to emerge everywhere, often times created marketing & advertising, perpetuated by W.O.M. (Word of Mouth) rumors and pop culture. For this reason, I have decided to unveil the truth to some of these rumors and show the truth in the myth ( if there is any)!
- Men Get More Sexual Urges Than Women
The Truth: Men and women actually have about equal sexual urges, which fluctuates throughout the day, triggered by various factors such as desire, sleep, health, confidence, stress & relationship status.
- Sex is Unimportant the Older You Are
The Truth: Sex is a huge factor in the overall mental & physical health of any person, regardless of how old you are.
- Big Hands & Feet Mean a Large Penis
The Truth: Although we may all have a blast gauging each other with this method, hands & feet size has nothing to do with penis size.
- Oral Sex is Safer than Anal or Vaginal Intercourse
The Truth: Oral sex is just that: Sex. Any kind of sex involves the exchange of bodily fluids which can still transfer STI’s/STD’s through small cuts or sores in the mouth as well as the throat.
- The “Pull Out” Method is a Viable Birth Control Option
The Truth: “Pulling Out,” also known as the withdrawal method, should never be used as a form of birth control as there is no way to control or detect the point at which ejaculation occurs, but also because during the time of climax no one has spot-on judgment.
- A Woman Can’t Get Pregnant if You Have Sexual Intercourse During Menstruation
The Truth: Although pregnancy is less likely to occur during that “Time of the Month,” it is still a possibility however rare it may be.
Find Out How To Preserve the Condition of Your Sex Toy Here!
5 Essential Ways To Spend Your Romantic Weekend Getaway or Weekend Spent In
Are you planning a romantic getaway with your lover? Would you like to? If so, there are a few essentials you may want to consider taking with you on your romantic weekend or trip to set the mood, enhance the experience and add some much needed excitement to your days spent in sexual bliss. These items are perfect for that getaway you’ve been planning, wanting to plan (Now you can!) or a simple romantic weekend spent in. With these 5 great ideas, you can turn your weekend of predictability into a more exciting and spontaneous experience filled with new sensations and erotic challenges everyone will enjoy!
1. Games: Pick a game that suits your interests and your plans. If you plan on going somewhere, you may prefer a smaller game that has better portable such as the Light Up Love Dice Game or the Dirty Dice Game. The Dirty Dice Game is a simple yet effective game that adds some fresh spontaneity to lovemaking. Light Up Love Dice Game makes the same possible with the added light up effects so romping around in the dark during game play is possible! If dice games are not your thing or you prefer a more tradition board game, then Intimate Commands: The Love Game may just be the game for you. The goal of the game is to give and receive sensual feelings and sensations in an exciting way turn by turn.
2. Love Oils: Love oils are a great addition to your weekend away or your weekend in because they make massage more sensual, fun and deliciously enjoyable for all involved parties. Massage is a great way to get in touch with your partner and their needs as well as a great excuse to touch them wherever your hands may lead you! Some good massage oil options are any of the Emotion Lotions, which come in 4 equally delicious flavors. The lotion is warming so when you rub it on, it gets warm; blow on it, it gets hot! If you prefer a more natural approach to massage, any of the Practically Magical Oils would be perfect and come in a large variety of natural scents. They can also be added to your bath for a complete aromatherapy experience before the massage or as an after bath oil.
3. Candles & Incense: Candles & Incense are great tools to set the mood of your weekend and is sure to get your partner in the right state of mind. A great choice to loosen the inhibitions is the Champagne Lights Candle with Pheromones. A wax beads jar candle that will burn from 10-12 hours, it is the perfect companion for a massage or bath. With added pheromones and a delicious Vanilla scent, your attraction to one another will be intense and instant. Incense might also be another way to set the mood: Auro Shikha Incense made of all natural ingredients promises a unique experience that will enliven your senses.
4. Bubbles: Enjoy a nice hot and relaxing bubble bath! Lie back and close your eyes as your partner washes every inch of your body or have them join you. Bubbles of Love is a great addition to your bath, especially if you enjoy bubbles and suds covering your birthday suit! Comes in a 24 Oz. bottle that will surely last you the whole weekend. Another great choice is the Practically Magical Oil, which doubles as a bath treatment or massage oil.
5. Books & Other Erotica: Whether you want some informative literature or steamy bedtime stories, we have plenty of great book choices. You may want to spend your weekend naked beneath the sheets with your lover reading some eye-widening erotica otherwise a good informative book on the best sexual positions and techniques is also a great option. For erotica, I recommend Penthouse:Between the Sheets as it has 36 different short stories to turn up the heat between you and your lover. Otherwise, my favorite informative book is The Art of Tantric Sex as it proves to be an enlightening spiritual experience as well as sexually freeing and intensely erotic for hours.
Remember to Pack the Condoms!
Protection is important. Remember to protect yourself and the ones you love by using condoms every time. The Trojan Shared Pleasure 12 Pack is an awesome choice for you weekend and large enough to last the entire weekend and spare you awkward trips to the store! These are warming for added stimulation.
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