3 Sexy Summer Treats To Try
After many chilly months, the ice is beginning to thaw and nicer days are finally upon us…or, if you’re like me and live in Cali, the days of 90 degree weather are back in full swing. For most California residents, this means out with the shorts and onto the beach so I came up with 3 fun ideas to try beneath the sheets with your honey in the coming hot summer nights.
Enjoy!
This Sexy Body Paint Graffiti Spray Massage Oil is totally a good time. Completely edible and deliciously flavored, it’s perfect for a hot summer day or night. A nice cool spin to put on this sweet treat? Try placing it into a bowl of ice water or the refrigerator for a bit before using. This should make the spray come out nice and chilly. What a nice way to cool off! Be careful and make sure you don’t put it in the freezer though; the pressure could make the can explode.
Certified Organic, the Intimate Organics Relaxing Massage Oil with Lemongrass and Coconut provides a deliciously sweet way to cool off. Great for relieving sore muscles or simply for a sensual rub down, this organic massage oil is formulated with aloe so it’s friendly on any sun burns you may get in the coming months. Place it in the fridge or a bowl of ice for 15 minutes before you use it and voila! You have yourself some pleasantly cool massage oil.
The original way to cool off on a hot summer’s day, ice cubes are great for sensual pleasure. Simply take an ice cube and slide it around on your partner’s body for great cooling effects. Enjoy immediate relief from the heat and sunburns and enjoy whatever pleasure comes out of it!
Good Luck!
11 New Things To Try In Bed
- New Positions: If you want something simple to try, new positions can definitely make things more exciting in the bedroom. Requiring only a computer or positions book to find positions, this one will keep you busy all night long! For a list of sex positions that also burn calories, click here.
- Mutual Masturbation: This requires a little bit of trust and a lot of confidence. Although it may make you feel a little self-conscious, this can be a lot of fun and really enjoyable for both parties. For more on masturbation, click here.
- Anal Sex: Trying anal sex is not for everyone, but many do find it to be extremely pleasurable. I recommend you do research on this in order to prevent pain and/or injuries as there is a certain technique when first starting out. For more information on anal sex, click here.
- BDSM: This one is not for the faint at heart! Kinky sex is not for everyone, but for a large community of people, kink brings a whole other level of pleasure (and sometimes a little pain) to your sex life. If you’re unsure whether you’d enjoy this sort of thing, you can always start out easy and try handcuffs or a blindfold to see if you like it or not before moving onto more advanced play. Find out more about BDSM here. Get the 411 on Spanking here.
- Toys: This can be a fun area to try for both parties! There are a wide variety of toys out there, including couples toys, that anyone can try and enjoy. Plus, you can enjoy these toys alone or together, whichever you choose. Check out our toy selections here. Check out more on how sex toys work and the different types of toys by clicking here. For a list of fun toys to try, check out my article here.
- Play Dress Up: This could mean a number of things. For some, this might just mean getting dressed up in skimpy lingerie for your partner. For others, this could mean full on cosplay or naughty schoolgirl roleplaying. Check out my article on lingerie for your body type here. Which brings me to…
- Roleplaying: Yep! Roleplaying. Roleplaying can be fun for both parties, especially if you’re into a specific fantasy or have an out of this world fetish. Plus, it’s just fun to dress up and play a role, isn’t it?
- Pole Dancing: If you have kids, this might not be so easy to try, although they do sell collapsing poles now that are mobile and easy to take down after using to store. This can be fun for a number of reasons:For one, dancers get to show off their sexy side by dressing and moving in a sexual way to please their partner. Those on the receiving end get to enjoy the show and maybe a lap dance! Check out my 5 Reasons Every Woman Should Pole Dance article here.
- Menage-a-Trois (Threesome): Depending on the relationship you have, this could or could not be something you want to try. Communication is key and finding out whether you both share the same fantasy or are even willing to try something like this. It also involves careful planning so that there is no jealousy involved and that everyone is truly okay with the arrangement. Want to experience a 3-some without a third party? Click here for how to do it!
- Sex in Public/ Places: Sex in public is, admittedly, illegal. I am not suggesting you go somewhere public and get it on, but I am suggesting you enjoy yourself in any environment different than where you normal would to create a nice change of pace. Whether that’s in your kitchen or laundry room or maybe somewhere else, I’ll leave that to your discretion. Just make sure it doesn’t involve you and your partner getting arrested! For fun places to have sex, check out a list here.
- Tantric Sex: This is a different kind of sex entirely. Some claim this to be highly spiritual and it’s actually frequently linked to yoga practitioners. Tantra is considered a spiritual experience wherein the prolonged enjoyment of sex leads to a higher state of being. To read more on tantric sex, check out my article on it here.
- Food: Food and your senses can make sex a lot more fun and interesting. Whether this means whip cream, chocolate syrup, ice, or edible body paints is up to you. There’s also the option of inserting certain unmentionables into your unmentionables, but that’s all to your discretion! To find out more on which foods increase your libido check out articles vol. 1 & vol. 2 for a list of foods to help libido. For foods to naturally cure impotence, click here.
Ask Kinky Kate A Question Is Back!
Powering into 2011 with class & style, I decided to bring back this “Ask Kinky Kate a Question” Contest for all of you who didn’t get the chance to submit last time. Same rules apply. I’ve pasted them below for good measure.
Good Luck!
That being said, I’ve decided to host a contest on the RA Blog where readers write in to me by emailing all submissions to Webmaster@RomanceAttack.Biz and submit either an idea for a blog subject you would like to learn more about (bondage, specific toy feature, etc.) or you may submit an entire blog that you yourself write and I will choose 3 of the best either ideas (which I will blog on) or blogs themselves (which will be posted here on the RA blog).
All Blogs and Blog Ideas should pertain to pleasure, sex toys, adult life, love life, relationships as they pertain to sexual relationships and pleasure, BDSM, Kinks, Etc. Blog Posts or Ideas may be Fiction or Non-Fiction. This means you may submit a blog that is informational, opinionated, based on your own experiences or fictional erotica.
Keep it tasteful!
Please keep the blog post at or under 1,000 words.
One Submission/Entry per person, No Exceptions. Attempting to enter more than one post from the same person will result in a disqualification. (*Please Note: All Blog Posts Written Should Be Submitted To My Email NOT the Twitter or Comment Space Below*)
Email us at Webmaster@RomanceAttack.Biz to Submit a Blog Post or Blog Idea to Us Before the Deadline (March 31, 2011) & Remember to Subscribe to the RA Blog in order for your entry to be considered valid!
Blogs may be submitted with a request to use a pen name if chosen for publication on the RA Blog. (* Please Note this if desired otherwise your real name will be credited on your blog unless otherwise requested beforehand*)
For all duplicate ideas; please note that the first person to submit that idea will be accepted and no other duplicates. Other duplicates are auto-disqualified unless idea is a variant of an idea. Example: Bondage is a blog idea but you can be more creative and ask for a blog about Girl on Girl Bondage or Dominatrix Vs. Master.)
Full writer credit will be given to the writer if they should be chosen as a guest blogger on RA. No payment will be issued at any time in the present, future or at any other time period. At not time may money or any time of payment be claimed from Romance Attack or any of its associates. BUT the TOP 3 Ideas OR Blogs that are chosen will receive one FREE Item of the following & publication of their idea or written blog on the RA Blog:
- 1st Place Winner: 1 FREE TSX Toy or Other NEW Toy (Genre may be chosen: Anal, Dildo, Vibe, etc.) PLUS Complimentary Lubricants & Single Condoms.
- 2nd Place Winner: 1 FREE Full Sized Lubricants, Lotions, Oils, Supplements Gift Basket (Variety of items in small sizes will be sent of 5-10 items)
- 3rd Place Winner: 1 FREE Full Sized Lubricant or Massage Oil (Cannot Choose Brand, but CAN choose which one they want- Lubricant or Massage Oil)
This is a fun opportunity for those of you who are writers and want to share your expertise on a specific subject or for those of you who want to hear more about a certain subject that you think hasn’t been discussed.
The Deadline to Enter is March 31 2011.
The 3 Winners Will be Chosen by the 15th of April and sent out immediately with response from the chosen winners!
Email All Submissions to Webmaster@RomanceAttack.Biz.
Have Fun & Remember to Subscribe!
FREE Gifts & Special Offers When You Shop with Romance Attack Online through February!
SPECIAL VALENTINE’S DAY OFFER!!
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From Now until the End of February, Romance Attack Online will also be offering this 7 Piece Beauty Kit that comes with an egg bullet vibe, a hard vibe and various sleeves and attachments FREE when you purchase $75 or more anytime between now and February 28, 2011.
How To Purchase Lingerie For Your Body Type
While there is no such thing as the perfect body and many of us having various body types, we can still optimize our confidence and sex appeal by wearing clothing that accentuates our assets and downplays our flaws. That being said, here’s some tips on how you can feel and look your best this Valentine’s Day in some sexy lingerie no matter what your age, size or body type.
- Sinfully Thin Ladies: If you’re a thin slice of deliciousness, you may want to step outside your comfort zone this Valentine’s Day & try some animal prints on for size. If you’re small in the rear or in the chest, animal prints can actually create the illusion that you have more cushion in these areas thereby offering a vision of fullness where you want it. Couple that with your great physique and you’ve created a totally sexy look for yourself. Ruffles and fringe also have similar effects. Another great way to accentuate your bust is by wearing a waist cincher or corset to create contrast between your upper and lower half of your body or opt for some rise up booty shorts to create the illusion of a more full shape. If all else fails, they sell padded thongs & booty shorts for those who need a little help & there’s no shame in shaking both what you’re momma did and didn’t give ya.
- Plus Size Vixens: Solid colors are the best bet when you’re a voluptuous vixen. Stay away from polka dots, prints or ruffles and instead opt for solid color babydolls in sheer, loose materials or if you want a sexier, less innocent look you can go with either a waist cincher or even a full length corset. These will all hide any flaws and flatter your best assets: your bust and your bum. If you have a nice rear, thongs and g-strings are a go and if you’d prefer to keep it under wraps, booty shorts are in. Just remember to choose a lacy type version of the boy or booty shorts to avoid looking too casual and up your sexy factor.
- Bootylicious: Got curves down below? The best way to accentuate this attractive asset is by avoiding ruffles and fringe and choosing a more clean, sleek design such as lacy rise up shorts, thongs, or g-strings in any solid color. Purples are in for the season, but red is always a classic eye-grabbing number.
- Boobylicious: Don’t know if I created that term, but there it is and I like it. You lovely ladies have been blessed and are loved by many even though you might be cursing these twins at times. If not, flaunt what you got because I don’t think I’ve ever seen a straight man say no to that. Back on topic, the best way to accentuate your bust is by wearing a waist cincher which will make your waist look tiny and your boobs look larger.
- Hourglass Figure: The best thing for an hourglass figure is the waist cincher or corset as both will sexily flatter your assets and create the perfect hourglass. Always a winner & gorgeous in solid colors. Avoid ruffles, fringes or prints as all three tend to make an hourglass figure look shapeless.
- Tall Ladies: If you’re tall and have long legs, thigh high stockings or knee high nylon or even socks will work well for you.
- Petite Ladies: If you’re on the shorter side in terms of height, avoid thigh high or knee high stockings as they will only make you look shorter. To elongate your features, choose full length hosiery or body stockings to create an uninterrupted line of design on your body. Fishnet or sheer black will all work nicely.
- Larger Legs/Thighs: Solid city for you, my friends. If you want to wear stockings or hosiery, opt for solid colors only, which will be slimming instead of unflattering.
- Smaller Legs/Thighs: If you’re taller, you can do with thigh high or knee high stockings, but if not, full length hosiery is the way to go. It will make you look sleek, yet full and flattering.
Lastly, some tips that work for everyone are solid colors including black, red, purple and white or matching your eye color to your outfit will give you that wow factor, full length hosiery including sheer nude or black and fishnets, and corsets corsets corsets. Babydolls and sheer lacy tops also work well for most, but remember to decide for your body and your comfort levels. It’s important to be comfortable and confident so you feel sexy when you look sexy and enjoy yourself!
Happy Early Valentine’s Day!
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5 Crazy Sex Toys You Should Try!!!
I’m always willing to try new things and, because of that, I am constantly on the hunt for toys that really deliver the most incredible sensations during use. If it doesn’t feel great or is somewhat boring to me, why bother? So, after looking through all of the fantastic toys I have tried and love, I decided to pick 5 of the craziest toys that I never thought I would like, but ended up loving.
Enjoy!
- Thick Ur Dick Girth Expander: I used this toy with my boyfriend, thinking I would hate the feeling, but I ended up enjoying this and making it a monthly fun addition to our naughty fun! This girth expander really does feel incredible; the texture is amazing, the width is filling during use and definitely induces an orgasm for me every time, several times over. The loop at the end fits over the penis like a cock ring, but with an extension attached. My boyfriend said it made things a lot more intense for him. Other fun girth expanders & extensions are the Frenchy Penis Extension and the Rumpa Bump Bump Extension.
- Polyphemus with Mega Suction: Although this toy can be intimidating at first, it really is incredible for anal. Made with several notches along the shaft, this feels AMAZING inside me and is great for anal play. I find that a lot of anime/ hentai fans like this toy a lot. Other fun anal toys are 2 Shots in the Dark & the Fondovalle Spiral Butt Plug. Anime fans may also like the Ocotopenis, the Wolfman with Suction & the Wolfman Extension.
- Fidelity G-Spot Fantasy: I absolutely LOVE this toy! If you frequent this blog, you know how much I rave about the Fidelity Fantasy Series. This toy series is truly an innovation in sex toys and an incredible advance for women like me who want to experience a threesome without dealing with the third person. I am not a swinger (much), but I still would like to experience the threesome, double penetration sensations and this toy facilitates that! I cannot tell you enough how much I love this toy. Try it, you’ll love it and never look back. If you love it like me, try also the Fidelity Anal Fantasy #1 & the Fidelity Anal Fantasy #2.
- The Inca Inspired Incubus Dildo: This is simply my favorite personal toy. Inspired by Incan and Aztec cultures, this toy may seem pretty big, but it’s actually only around 7 inches insertable. I love the detail on this toy and how it’s really artistic and creative. Aside from that, the detail on this toy makes for WOW-worthy sensations during use of this toy. Just thick enough, this toy is soft and supple to the touch and has a powerful base that will stay put while I have my way ;). Other artistic toys include the fun I-Cock & the Sun Man.
- Foreskin Fucking Good: This toy is the least intimidating toy, which makes it nice for daily or weekly use. It’s shaft texture feel incredible while you ride it and since there’s a convenient suction on the base, it won’t move an inch during all the fun and moaning, which is just the way I like it. Other fun toys include the super soft Homeboy in Fauxskin & the Big Ball Penis also in Fauxskin.
UPDATE!: Store Sales & Promotions Vs. Online Sales & Promotions
Due to recent incidents at some of our store locations, I decided to post this blog to note to customers who may shop there or here online (or both!) to make you all aware of certain things regarding promotions and sales to minimize any confusion, anger or frustration while shopping.
First things first, any sales online are in NO WAY directly or indirectly linked with sales at any of our store locations unless otherwise stated. This means if we are having 40% OFF certain items online, that DOES NOT mean we are having this same sale at a store location. In fact, our managers may not even know we are having an online sale.The same goes for free gift with purchase offers or other promotions. The fact of the matter is that we actually do not always have the same products at our given locations and there may be different items available online than in any store location, making offering the same free gift offers impossible.
Given the fact that we have separate managers for each of our locations and that our locations literally span the United States, it would not only be impossible to coordinate the same sales, but it also just would not be practical to do so. Tailored as the stores are to their locations, it also makes sense for their sales to apply to their local customers, and is not necessarily a corporate thing, though it may get corporate approval. The same goes for online customers. That being said, we may hold a joint online and in-store sale, but we will NOTE THIS in a blog written by me or it will be stated on the RA website or the respective RA Twitter pages.
Please also note that there is a main RA Twitter for online promotions and several other Twitter pages for each of our store locations for their separate promotions and sales. I urge you, if you do shop at a specific location, to follow us here at Romance Attack Online and also the specific store location near you to avoid any confusion or irritation. If you don’t know which location is closest to you, feel free to check out our various Store Locations to see where Romance Attack physical stores are located throughout the United States.
I apologize, on behalf of everyone here at Romance Attack, for any confusion or annoyance this may have caused anyone during their shopping experience.
With that all said and done, I will take this moment to remind everyone our New Years’ Sale has been extended to January 10th, 2011 so hurry while this promotion lasts & get 20% OFF All Orders $20+Up!
Happy 2011!
11 Perfect Toys To Enjoy Your First Night Of 2011
While you’re guaranteed to all be partying in some way this New Year’s Eve & possibly New Year’s Day, I’ve conjured up (yep, I’m magical like that!) a list of toys I think would be fun to try your first night of the new year with a lover(s).
I hope you enjoy!
- Sex In the Shower Suction Handcuffs. While it’s not nearly as easy as it looks to have naughty fun in the shower, these cuffs certainly make things a bit easier and certainly more exciting! Enjoy the warm, wet sensations in the water this New Year’s Day!
- Fetish Fantasy Series Master & Servant Set. Take Control in 2011! Assert your dominance, independence and erotic power over your lover in the New Year! Enjoy this fun kit with restraints, collar & leash, and mask.
- Bondage Love Swing. Swing into the New Year kicking and screaming in ecstasy with the Bondage Love Swing! Enjoy new heights of lovemaking and pleasure with a fun sex swing; you may find yourself heartily enjoying 2011 even more!
- Icicles No. 5 Hand Blown Massager. Glass Toys offer a completely unique sexual experience all their own. You can use this toy in a variety of ways, including in the shower or hot tub, but two popular ways to use glass toys are by either heating up the glass or cooling the glass down before use. You can do this by heating up water in a bowl or pouring cold water into a bowl with ice cubes and then placing the toy into the bowl for around 5-10 minutes. It will become either hot or cold, depending on your preference and give you either a warming or cooling sensation during use. I find these toys great in the winter when I’m COLD!
- Fidelity Anal Fantasy #1. This is one of the first toys ever to enable couples to try Double Penetration without the help of a third party. A part of a series of 3 Double Penetration Toys, the Fidelity Anal Fantasy #1 is a great toy for those beginning anal fun, enables double penetration for a monogamous couple and feels incredible!
- Sweeten 69 Tablets for Him & Her. This natural supplement allows you and your partner to enjoy the fruity flavor of one another’s natural fluids during lovemaking and/or oral play. You’ll enjoy oral more than ever before!
- Sexy Graffiti Strawberry Body Paint. This unique body paint is strawberry flavored for a delicious taste and works well as a body paint and massage oil. Comes equipped with fun stencils for decorating body parts & unmentionables!
- Organic Sensual Massage Oil. Created with a unique blend of organic botanical ingredients, this massage oil feels and smells great. Rejuvenating and alluring, this massage oil is great for loosening inhibitions and helping both you and your partner let loose and relax.
- Kama Sutra Strawberries & Champagne Treasure Trove. A fun and romantic kit for couples, friends and singles ready to mingle, this Kama Sutra kit includes a variety of fun items all in the Strawberries & Champagne flavor.
- Spinning Dance Pole Kit. Whip yourself into shape the sexy way by pole dancing! In the new year, many flock to gyms and personal trainers, but this professional dance pole kit makes it fun, sexy, & gives you an incredible workout!
- 10.25″ Homeboy Dildo in Fauxskin. Prepare yourself for a completely realistic feel with this toy. This is NOT your average dildo! This toy feels completely soft and silky; almost better than the real thing! Standing tall at a little over 10 inches, 8 inches are insertable, making it a great size for most and a delightfully orgasmic experience for all!
Happy New Year!
6 Naughty New Years’ Resolutions We All Should Add to Our List!
As the new year of 2011 swings in the near future, coming closer everyday, I start thinking about my goals for 2011 and what I would like to accomplish in the coming year whether it’s to break a habit, exercise more or lose weight or both, or simply stress less, especially in these tough economic times. With that being said, I thought I would come up with a list of things I think anyone could try (just for fun!) in this coming 2011 that are sexy and fun just to say that you did them at least once.
Here’s what I came up with:
1. Try Anal JUST ONCE, Just to see how it feels! You may just love it like the rest of us! ;-P
2. Try Double Penetration; You may be surprised by how much you like it! Kick the third wheel out of the picture if swinging isn’t for you and simulate D.P. with this series of INCREDIBLE TSX Toys: Fidelity Toy Series!
3.This one can be attempted with any of your favorite massage oils and should be done when no one’s home if you live with others or children. First, place hot water in a glass bowl on a stable counter top and put your choice of massage oil(s) into the bowl to warm up the oils. Lay down either a tarp (if you have one), plastic mat or some newspaper to prevent a big mess in a room with at least 4 feet of space on all sides, preferably in a living or family room. Then, light up some candles on nearby furniture to set the ambiance and mood of the evening; be sure they are secure. Go back to your massage oil and spread it out across the tarp or plastic mat. Remember, a little bit goes a long way; this should just be enough to slightly dot the areas of the mat. In your birthday suits, you and your lover(s) can massage one another with the now warm massage oil and slide along the plastic quite easily. Whatever other fun follows is up to you! Click here for massage oils; We have plenty to choose from including great natural and organic options!
4.Try a Luxury Rabbit Vibrator like this one or if anal is your preference, try any one of these butt plugs for new sensations!
5. Enjoy losing control or taking control by arranging some power play with your lover. That’s right, bondage. Between you and your lover(s) discuss who will dominate and who will submit and have fun with a scenario of your choosing. Check out some great bondage items here.
6. Try a difficult sex position or one that’s out of the norm like the Pinwheel or the Butterfly!
Remember, it’s all about new experiences and having a great time so do what’s on your comfort level or maybe what’s not but that you’re curious about and have fun with it! This is the time of your life…enjoy it!
Happy New Years!